100 Things That Made Our Year 2023

The year 2023 has been both amazing and crushing for me on a personal level.

Although it’s tempting for me to look to 2024 and hope for the next best thing, I’m using this post to maintain my culture of reflecting on how this year went.

Every year I write a post on 100 things that made my year. 

Here are the previous ones for 2018, 2019, 2020, 2021, 2022.

This is a gratitude post as it reminds me that with all that’s going on in the world, I still managed to stop to appreciate certain things and achieve some 😊.

It’s also a way for me to record my personal growth over the years as I look back whilst also inspiring anyone seeking progress in their lives.

Before I share what made my year of 2023, I wanted to share that this year was crushing because of personal loss.

My dearly loved brother-in-law of the same age as me died this year and I’m still struggling with the loss. 

I’ve not only had to step in as a father figure for him and my sister’s sons but organising a funeral we didn’t expect was heartbreaking.

His loss has made me see even more so the important role that fathers play in a family setting. 

When you lose someone who occupies so much space and significance, that loss affects more people and more of your personal comforts than you can ever imagine.

In addition to personal loss, members of my family struggled with health conditions that weighed heavy on me.

Parallel to all this heartache, and emotional and mental turmoil, I threw myself into my work as a way to cope, working harder than ever whilst also trying to have fun.

It’s worth mentioning that 90% of the good things that happened this year were not things we planned to do.

They only happened because we have been consistently visible and creating value for years.

100 Things That Made Our Year 2023

Here are the 100 things that made our year of 2023 in no particular order:

1. We became published authors of Financial Joy

The funny thing is, around this time last year, we were planning our year and we said to ourselves, “Maybe 2023 is the year that we try to write a book”.

2 weeks later, a dream publisher from Quercus (part of Hachette) contacted us and said they loved our work.

It’s mad to think that in 12 months, we went from book idea to now awaiting our book launch on 28th March 2024.

We’ve worked hard! 😅

Shoutout to everyone who has pre-ordered already. We're super grateful.

If you haven't yet, click here to order a copy.

I still have to pinch myself when I think that starting this blog has led to us becoming published authors.

Thank God for this open door!  

2. We both became 40 years old and celebrated with a joint party.

I felt pretty anxious turning 40, to be honest, but my mum changed my mindset when she made me realise that this is an achievement to be celebrated.

Our lives at 40 feels massively different to how it was at 30. 

We’re wiser and have fewer worries and see this as a season of enjoying the fruits of our labour.

We marked our 40th with a joint home dinner party in an intimate setting of 30 people:

3. Mary launched The Humble Penny Shop

Creating our shop was Mary’s personal project as she’s a skilled creative.

I was super proud to see her take charge of this project and lead it from start to launch.

The shop is home to all our digital products (paid and free). 

Everything from budgeting, making money online, affiliate marketing, learning to invest, etc. 

It’s all there in the form of eBooks, spreadsheets, courses, etc, and growing.

4. Joshua passed his 11plus exams for Kent and Bexley

Parenting is the hardest thing that we have the honour of doing.

The last 7 years have been tough educating our sons actively in partnership with their school.

We’ve invested heavily in their education in both time and money and it was the perfect outcome to see Josh not only pass the 11plus but smash them 😍.

We still cannot believe that in 9 months, our baby will be in secondary school.

If you have a family member who didn't pass, please encourage them that they still have every opportunity to succeed in their way for the future.

These exams ultimately don't guarantee the future at all especially speaking from how our lives have turned out so far.

Love and encouragement from family and taking calculated risks are key.

5. I Scored a 99 Sleep Score

Although we’ve worked exceptionally hard this year, we’ve also looked after our wellbeing as best we can.

One thing we started doing was tracking our sleep scores using this watch.

It tracks sleep time, sleep cycles, wakefulness, and physical and mental recovery.

This 99 score out of 100 is my highest ever and it made me feel good to know that I’m looking after myself again after such a difficult year mentally.

 

6. Elias learned to solve a Rubix cube and is now obsessed with it

Our second son has just about cracked the Rubix 2×2 cube and is now also learning how to solve the 3×3 cube.

He is obsessed with it and is even watching videos on how to do it online. Bless.

7. We all went ice skating in December

Although our boys are still learning, it was lovely to see them learn so quickly. 

I expect that we’ll be doing more skating in 2024.

8. Watching World War II From The Front Lines 

This is one of the most phenomenal documentaries I’ve ever watched.

WWII in colour using actual footage made the war seem very real for someone like me who wasn’t there. 

It was both sad and gripping to see the reality of war. Knowing that the narrator was John Boyega, was wow! 10/10.

9. We won BBBA Entrepreneur Senior Leader of The Year 2023

After a very rigorous multi-stage nomination and interview process, we won the prestigious award by the Black British Business Awards (BBBA).

Here is the official announcement.

It was also announced in the Telegraph and Evening Standard.

For us, this was one of those pinch myself moments. 

To think that in 2017 we began The Humble Penny as a passion project and now award-winning, wow!

10. We were invited to Number 10 Downing Street 

For the first time ever, the UK Prime Minister’s office chose to release a confidential policy briefing to half a dozen YouTube creators before traditional media learned about it.

We were one of the five creators chosen and invited to meet the UK Prime Minister.

This moment validated a lot for me because it shows that the consistency we’ve had with our work is being noticed by people and it’s opening doors.

We were told that one reason we were chosen is because of the integrity that comes across in our work and the fact that we have a genuine community of people we serve.

11. We celebrated Christmas and hosted around 25 family members 

For the first time in around a decade, we hosted and had people from both sides of the family over at our house.

It was lovely and not stressful at all as everyone brought a dish, drink and desserts.

One of my biggest highlights was the sleepovers and chatting with family till around 3 am.

12. Top Boy finale

We’re huge fans of the show and it’s amazing to see the international acclaim and how this show has opened doors for the actors involved and for those upcoming.

The thing is though, I was sad to see how it ended especially as a black man. 

It made me realise the hold that money can have over people when they allow greed and the pursuit of power to become their primary purpose for living.

I’m a huge fan of Kano, Ashley Walters and Little Simz, and their performances were outstanding. 

13. We went back to Zanzibar for a Baecation after 13 years

Back in 2010, Mary and I planned our lives in what we called our 10-year plan back then. 

It all began on the beach in Zanzibar, Tanzania. In 2023, we went back to again and it was a beautiful experience.

We danced on the beach, swam with Turtles, danced with Massai, saw dolphins, stayed in Matemwe and Nungwi .etc. 

Whilst doing all these things, we bumped into a guy with a drone who made this spectacular video for us and this one of our Massai dance.

 

14. Mum dyed her hair red in her late 60s

I love my mum. I was so shocked and filled with joy when I saw her unveil her new look.

It reminded me of the need to keep evolving and having fun as I get older.

15. Letter from the Mayor of London for BBBA award win. 

In November, the Mayor of London wrote us a personal letter to congratulate us on winning the BBBA award.

It was very touching because he didn’t have to. Thank you, Mayor.

16. Buying and enjoying a drench shower.

This might sound so insignificant to you, but it is one of my favourite things to own.

I see it as part of my self-care. 

When I’m in that shower, I have some of my best ideas. Similar to when I go for a walk.

No one in our house uses the drench shower as they prefer the side one but I’m secretly happy about it, haha 😆.

17. Our email list of subscribers crossed 20,000

It means a lot to us to know that there are people in our communities that we can speak to and hear from directly without worrying about algorithms.

Thank you for subscribing if you’re one of those who receive our newsletters.

Feel free to join by subscribing to any of our free resources. 

18. Desert Adventure Quad biking and Dune bashing

A friend of mine told me that the time you spend with your kids up to the age of 10 represents around 70% of the time you’ll ever spend with them.

This made me think!

We’re doing everything possible to max out doing as many unique experiences with our children as possible.

Here we were celebrating Josh passing his 11plus exams:

 

19. Vitality GP video appointments

This is an odd one but one of the best investments we’ve made is getting health insurance.

It’s a nightmare getting appointments with a GP or referrals to a specialist on the NHS.

However, with this health insurance, we’re able to get a GP appointment and speak to a GP on video from home in 45 minutes from the time we booked. Wow!

We’ve had to give up certain expenses to afford health insurance but it is totally worth it.

20. We converted our shed into a home gym

This is one of the most life-changing things we’ve ever done.

Working from home since covid, we’ve not only become less fit but we’ve accumulated more rubbish in our shed.

Converting the shed into a gym space on a budget has been the best decision ever and gives us a space to keep fit and take a break in.

Watch the conversion here

21. The Joshua vs Joshua chess game.

Josh has become obsessed with chess lately. He asked his mummy to play with him but she was tied up cooking.

So he went to his room and played against himself! 

It was hilarious watching him play and strategise against himself. Priceless moment.

22. Watching Maxine's Baby – The Tyler Perry story.

This is one of the most inspiring documentaries that I’ve ever watched.

Tyler Perry is a multi-talented billionaire who started life poor and abused.

Today, he owns the largest movie studio in the world, larger than any in Hollywood. It’s 330 acres.

One very touching moment in the doc was when he honoured other people by naming them after each of the dozen sound studios he’d built.

He named each sound stage after the likes of Oprah, Denzel, Sidney Poitier, Spike Lee, Will Smith, Halle Berry, etc.

This to me spoke of an abundance mindset and the beauty that there is in honouring your peers and those who have helped you to come up. 

23. Featured in the Guardian

We were featured in the Guardian sharing frugal Christmas money-saving tips to help you avoid overspending in the festive season.

24. Commissioned to write a blog post for Christianity magazine.

Being asked to write for such an authoritative magazine was yet more validation for me to keep going

The piece I wrote was about the Christian response to a culture of debt. 

Watch out for it in January 2024.

25. FJA Christmas and Summer Lunch Meetups 

Dream Makers at Financial Joy Academy (FJA) meet 3 times in person each year to eat, drink, have fun and network.

We even had people come from as far as Scotland to stay over. 

Shout to ‘So So’ and ‘Joy’ from Aberdeen among others who also travelled very far.

 

 

26. Getting pranked by our boys using Google AI 

Our boys and Mary used Mary’s phone to call me from a Private number to say that I ordered 100 cheese burgers from McDonald's. I freaked out!

They even pressed the ring door bell alarm downstairs to say the order has arrived and I fell for it

27. Powerful quote

I heard this at church and it realy stuck with me:

“Prayer is a journey that starts in need but ends in relationship”

28. BBC Radio London appearance

Mary and I were invited on BBC Radio London on 16 November as their second ever couple on the show.

Although Mary was nervous on the way, she absolutely smashed it and flourished as a natural.

29. Boey Bear YouTube channel

My very good friend, Rosalind, owns and runs the Boey Bear Toddler Learning videos YouTube channel.

We go way back from the days when we started as undergrads at uni to us starting our careers as Chartered Accountants.

I’m proud of her and her growing brand doing what she loves.

The thing that made my year was that on top of her outstanding work, she’d fought a battle for years to get monetised for her word on YouTube and finally achieved it.

She also achieved 100,000 Subscribers and growing! To our success, Ros! 

30. Financial Wellbeing Workshop at Netflix

In October, we delivered our best-ever corporate workshop at Netflix.

They had staff join from different offices including the Netherlands. 

It was a huge highlight of our year and we look forward to more corporate workshops like this.

Who knows, this may even open bigger doors with Netflix in the future.

31. Outdoor cinema with our boys in Dubai. 

We watched Night at the Museum 2 and it was warm and beautiful. 

They even served warm popcorn. 

 

32. Amazon Number 1 Best Seller within 24 hours 

It was absolutely amazing to see our book hit number one as soon as we announced it in October.

It hit number 1 in these categories:

• #1 in Financial Retirement Planning
• #1 in Management Science
• #1 in Budget & Finance Management

33. My dad surprised us with a monetary gift

It wasn’t a lot of money but it was the thought that counted the most.

What I love about my dad when it comes to things like these is that he puts the money into an envelope and writes our name on it.

It’s almost as though the act of giving in itself for him is a celebration. I was really touched and inspired by the effort to give.

34. A lifeline of a voicemail

I was getting massively overwhelmed in August whilst writing our book and also preparing for the 11plus with Josh.

Usually, August is a month we take off travel but this year, we worked on two major projects (the book and the 11plus exams) because we had to.

I told my brother, Kingsley, that I was struggling. 

He left me a voice note to remind me that everything we're doing is sowing seed in the sowing season. 

Things will only ever get better and there will be a season to reap those rewards too.

35. Watching “NoWhere” Movie on Netflix. 

It felt like a glimpse into what happens to so many people but we never hear about e.g. Migrants. 

This movie was extremely emotional but also challenged a lot of norms. E.g. the lead character giving birth in a container in the middle of the sea and eating her placenta. 

Plus breastfeeding on camera, something you don’t see that often but something that is perfectly normal for a mother.

There were also moments of creativity and survival against all odds and these inspired me to always keep going even in hardship.

 

36. Featured on Bloomberg

This piece on Bloomberg was about the challenges faced by black entrepreneurs particularly with the challenges of the cost of living crisis.

37. Got home to see Josh reading Dotcome Secrets. 

I was so proud as I'd been thinking of reading Dotcom Secrets as a book at home to our children but he beat me to it and chose to read the book all by himself. 

This is a book I read years ago and it taught me important principles about marketing.

The future is bright four children if they’re already reading such books even before their teenage years.

38. Bought a hot water tap for automatic boiling water

Again, a bit like the shower, I want more conveniences that bring joy but if it also saves money, even better.

I dislike boiling kettles again and again. So, upgrading to a tap that has boiling water ready all the time felt like a treat.

39. ‘Live to 100’ show on Netflix

There is no point working hard to make money or build wealth if you won’t be around to enjoy it.

Outside of God’s grace, if you want evidence of what it takes to live a longer life, this is the show to watch:

 

40. Our Book was announced on The Bookseller

This is the official publication for people in the publishing industry.

I was proud to see our book not only announced but also featured in their magazine. It has had a phenomenal reception so far.

Announcing our book on 5th October 2023. Phenomenal reception. Plus announcement on Book Seller:

Order Our Book here

41. Elias started wearing glasses 

Weirdly, seeing how handsome he was in glasses was a highlight of my year.

Our dear son had for a long time struggled to see items that are far away but he didn’t think it was an issue.

It was reassuring to find out that he needed glasses and he now feels like he has perfect eyesight.

On the same day, he was awarded for “outstanding work this week” on Atom. 

We felt like proud parents just knowing that in he is progressing in his own way small by small.

42. Mary came first twice on sports day

Every sports day for the last 5 years, Mary has come first in the mums' races.

She's the one to beat according to all the mums. This year, I proudly came third

43. Your identity is your destiny

I learned that “Your identity is your destiny”. 

God called Abraham (the father of nations) instead of Abram even before he was the father of one child. 

He was fatherless but had to assume his new identity to become who God wanted him to become.

There is much power in you when you know who you are. Watch this:

 

44. Got more confident swimming backwards 

I can even turn around and swim on my side, but I still can’t swim fully on my front.

Having access to a swimming pool daily in Rhodes helped a lot. 

45. Our first work experience student

We had Daniel over at our home for 1 week of work experience and taught him how to start an online business, learn to invest, plan for the future, etc.

We invited his parents over the Christmas period and I hear they’re now taking guidance from him because the one week of learning impacted him so positively.

I look forward to the day when we can do the same for more parents maybe through a Summer camp or something.

46. ‘Period. End of Sentence’ documentary on Netflix.

I was so inspired by these women in India who learned a way of helping other women through everyday materials to solve the problems of a lack of pads during their periods.

Shocking that some boys in the documentary thought that a period was an “illness” that only affects women.

The documentary was deeply insightful and showed how much need there is for education on the topic and how much stigma there is still attached to it. 

It also reminded me of the things we take for granted in this part of the world.

Watch the full documentary for free here on YouTube:

 

47. Watching Alcaraz beat Djokovic at the 2023 Wimbledon final

I like Djokovic but something about seeing the underdog win was refreshing.

48. We crossed 70,000 subscribers on YouTube. 

It feels like it has taken forever to get here. Another creator friend, Simi, told me that it’s good to grow slowly.

This has been comforting in a world where other non-black creators in the same niche, who started years after us, have grown a lot more subscribers than we have.

Being a black creator online means that it takes longer to be trusted, which means that you don’t grow as quickly.

This is the first time I’ve ever openly said it and I’ve seen the same trend with other creators of a similar background.

One thing I have learned though is that your people are your people, and our audience is drawn to us for different reasons including our story, background, faith, journey, quality content, etc.

So we continue to focus on being radically authentic, honest and transparent with our work and that will continue to set us apart.

Slow growth is good and we embrace the challenges.

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49. Our reel of the year

We met Emily, our editor and Oscar, our Literary Agent to talk about the progress of our book and filmed some clips on our way.

It has turned out to be our most viewed reel on Instagram from over 30,000 people and growing:

Watch the reel here

 

50. We worked with some awesome brands and organisations

We were blessed to work with the likes of Netflix, Amazon, Sainsbury’s, WeBull, Financial Conduct Authority, 10 Downing Street, etc, this year.

51. We create a first-of-its-kind collaboration with Amazon at their HQ

We not only got to interview a partner manager at Amazon in London but we also interviewed a top seller on the Amazon platform.

That content is dropping soon.

52. I crossed 12,000 Followers on LinkedIn in 1 Year

I really enjoy creating on the platform.

It reminds me of my early days as a creator as I create there as raw as I can.

The beauty of the platform is the workings of the algorithm and the fact that the audience are professional decision makers.

My approach has been a focus on quality over quantity and the focus on consistency.

Follow me here

53. I nurtured my few friendships

For our 40th birthday celebrations, for example, we invited only 30 people to our home and that included family for both Mary and I.

People we’d mostly known for 10 years or more. 

I find that focusing on a handful of friends and nurturing those is a lot more fulfilling.

Yes, I meet lots of people but it takes a long time before I can truly say someone is my friend and not just someone I know or who knows me.

I feel that the culture of building lasting friendships is changing. A lot of people aren’t bothered to put in the work.

For me, nurturing friendships that you care about is about giving and not expecting to get anything back. 

54. Watched the movie, “The Sailor, My Love” 

Once in a while, I like to watch a romantic movie.

What I really liked about this one is that it featured a much older couple.

The simplicity of it and seeing two much older people fall in love was nice.

I remember one line from the film:

What we have here is not going to happen again.

This happened when Howard was inviting his housekeeper, whom he'd fallen in love with, to become his wife. 

Something about this was not only sweet to see but it had finality to it. 

He took a chance on love and so did she. She moved in. It was lovely to see .

 

55. Bumped into a fan at 35,000 feet

I was queuing up for the bathroom on a flight back from holiday and a fan of The Humble Penny recognised me and asked me a question.

I really enjoyed chatting to him about retirement planning whilst both our wives were fast asleep.

56. Buying a double bin with slow close

For years, our home bin had been plastic bags we’d hang on the cupboard.

This year, we finally bought an actual bin and I have to say, it has improved our lives for the better.

57. Finalists at the British Bank Awards for Online Financial Influencer of The Year.

I hate the word “influencer”, however, it was nice to be recognised and reach the finalist.

58. Getting upgraded to a room with its own swimming pool in Rhodes.

I believe in asking for stuff and if the answer is No, then so be it.

We asked for this upgrade and unbelievably, we got it. It was a stunning room with a ground floor swimming pool.

However, not long after we started our holiday, the wildfires in Rhodes began, which was a nightmare for a lot of people.

So although the experience was amazing, there was an element of constant worry thrown in as we read the news of the wildfires. 

59. My friend, Sope, interviewed us

My friend, Sope Agbelusi, a well-renowned leadership coach did something that demonstrated practical love, for which we’re super grateful.

He hired a studio and invited us and The Humble Penny community to meet in person and talk about our story, why we wrote the book, how it all came about, etc.

We chatted for 90 minutes in front of our audience and it was beautiful. We shared things we’d never shared before in this interview. Watch it here:

60. Featured on some amazing podcasts.

• ICAS (Institute of Chartered Accountants of Scotland) – This episode featured super interesting questions about my professional journey and journey as an entrepreneur.
• Dope Black Dads – This is our most fun podcast episode of 2023. It covered so much! Everything from how we met, dating, investing, financial wellbeing, etc.
• Stories That Shape Us – This is the first podcast episode that really took me back to my childhood. Loved it!
• The Money Gains – This was a lovely allrounder because it focused on our journey but also covered fun things like our blogging, YouTube journey, etc.
• The Wallet – This brilliant episode filled with super interesting questions with Emilie Bellet, founder of Vestpod, was about how to achieve Financial Freedom.
• Earn and Invest – This was from late 2022 and we absolutely loved delving deep into what Financial Joy means to us.

61. Our book featured 12 unique interviews

One of the unique aspects of our book was that we interviewed 12 people of different ethnicities, age groups, stages of the money journey, and genders.

Some were even public figures and these interviews were spread across different parts of the book as part of the learning for readers.

Everything from how people took control of their finances, got out of debt, launched successful online businesses, became financially free, etc.

62. iPad Creativity Day at Apple store

A friend invited us to a creativity day during the half term. 

This fairly ordinary day turned out to be very significant for two reasons, which ended up featuring in our book.

One is that I came up with the “Debt-O-Nator Method” for becoming debt-free, which we trademarked and featured in our book.

The second is something usually that happened, which we feature in our book that reminded us of why Financial Joy is so important.

We won’t spoil it for you by sharing it in this post. It’s worth the wait for when you read it or listen to the audio book.

63. Watched the ‘97% Owned’ documentary

This is a jaw-dropping documentary about how money works, and how we got to where we are with the state of the UK and the global economy.

Watch it in full here:

 

64. Joshua and Elias Roast battle in Rhodes.

This is one of the funniest things I’ve ever seen. They wouldn’t stop going on about each other’s hairlines and laughing out loud.

65. We prayed live on air 

We were guests on Premier Christian Radio – Esther Highams show, which we loved.

The episode was about stewarding your money biblically. 

One unusual thing we did on this episode was that we prayed live on air! We didn’t expect her to ask us to pray but we were honoured.

66. We met Chad and Kari Carson

I met Chad Carson aka Coach Carson (real estate expert) as part of a US mastermind that I’m in and on his Europe travels with his wife, Mary and I got to meet and hang out with them in London.

It was beautiful to go from forming an online friendship to meeting in person. We had a proper catch-up and it felt like we’d known each other for much longer.

67. We danced to Afrobeats in Poland

We visited Poland for a wedding. Mary’s brother married a Polish lady.

It was our first time in Poland and we were worried about an aeroplane full of black people arriving in Eastern Europe.

However, we were welcomed well and ended up in the Polish countryside for the wedding reception.

They had a 14-course menu that went on till 4 am! So much food and alcohol.

The music was fire!

We were dressed up in traditional attire and danced to current day Afrobeats and original bangers like this one from Shina Peters:

68. Lunch with Sara Trezzi

Sara is our very good friend and fellow creator who started the blogging journey with us in 2017 too. 

She’s since gone on to become an incredible success with her work on Gathering Dreams. 

She is one of the 12 interviews in our book and we had the pleasure of meeting her for an Italian meal in January and she was full of ideas as ever.

If life feels a bit meh, I usually drop Sara a WhatsApp to see what part of the world she’s sitting at the beach on. 

69. FJA Scholarships

I’m proud that we were able to give away fully paid scholarships to Financial Joy Academy (FJA) to people we felt really struggled financially and needed help after listening to their stories.

On a deeply personal level, it means a lot to me that we’ve been able to do this through our work and the impact is immeasurable.

70. The Humble Penny Became 6 Years Old

It’s crazy to think that we’ve been going for 6 years now. 

When we started this journey, we gave ourselves 3 years to either succeed or fail spectacularly.

Now, we’ve been around for twice the time we have ourselves and we’re still going and having fun doing it.

One thing we didn’t expect is the level of positive impact The Humble Penny has had so far.

There is no day that we leave our house that someone does not stop us on the street to thank us for our work. This is unexpected, beautiful and encouraging for us.

Click here to see a post I shared on LinkedIn about what we’ve learned in our 6th year.

71. My Sister’s Resilience

My sister, Pam, who sadly lost her husband, Sam, only aged 39 has had the most challenging year of her life.

Although life remains painful in many ways, I’m proud of her resilience and attempts to pick herself up and show up for her children, her business and for herself.

I’m also proud that Mary and I have been there daily to support her and my nephews in every way possible in this devastating year of loss.

72. Unique Experiences in Greece

As a family, we did some unique things for the first time. We all played basketball and tennis together in Rhodes.

We all went to the gym together for the first time too as our boys are showing an interest in working out. We all ran on the treadmill together.

Finally, one other thing I really enjoyed was picking multi-coloured pebbles on the beach together and making memories.

73. Make Your Child a Millionaire Viral Post on Linked

A post I shared on LinkedIn for how to make your child a millionaire went viral and I’m still stunned it did.

I often take certain knowledge for granted and I’m surprised when people react so well to it.

Here are the stats on that one post alone as of the last time I looked: 238,224 impressions, 1,520 Reactions, 165 comments and 55 Reposts.

74. Swipe Left Invest Right FCA panel

We collaborated with the UK Regulator, the Financial Conduct Authority (FCA) on a panel about the parallels between dating and investing.

It was well attended and fun and we formed a new friendship with Anna Williamson, Presenter of Celebs Go Dating, who is also one of the interviewees in our book.

75. 14 Peaks Documentary

This is a documentary about the ridiculously insane journey by Nims Purja who went on the impossible quest to summit all 14 of the world’s 8,000-meter peaks in seven months.

The fastest anyone had ever done it before him was 7 years and he achieved it in 7 months!!

This documentary is visually stunning, inspiring and gripping! 

Here are some of my favourable soundbites:

Doesn’t matter where you come from, you can show the world nothing is impossible.

“Today we drink, tomorrow we plan!”

“When you’re in the mountains, if you give up, you die”

“Giving up is not in the blood son, it is not in the blood”

 

76. Important things I learned from planning a funeral

This made the list because I learned some very important things from planning a funeral, dealing with layers of cultural complexity and the fallout from different opinions about what should be done.

These experiences have made me wiser and more prepared for the next time I will need to plan a funeral. Here is what I learned:

• Having a will – Don’t just put it off. Write one today.
• Prepare by putting aside the money – No more “go fund me’s”. Death is inevitable and funerals are big business. Plan for it and assume you need around £15,000.
• The fallout (family) due to emotional strain – This was one of the hardest things to experience.
• Mental health and wellbeing impact – It’s important to have a way of protecting your well-being before such events happen so that when it does happen, you can gradually dig your way out.
• The funeral is closure – People you think will be around disappear after a funeral. For them, that’s closure and they all go back to their lives and leave you to yours, which is a sad reality.
• Life is short – Stop letting petty things upset you and stop worrying as it’s doing more damage. Instead, appreciate how short life is and enjoy it now.

77. Featured in the SME 

We were interviewed about what it took to get to where we are with The Humble Penny and our vision for the next decade.

78. Words of wisdom from our 10 year old son

This happened at the beginning of our book-writing process.

Josh asked me if I worked on the book today and I said, No. 

He said, “Daddy, success is in the day by day. If you work on it daily, you’ll finish it quicker and do part 2”. 

79. Financial Times article about black entrepreneurs

I enjoyed being featured in this important article about levelling the playing field for black entrepreneurs, thanks to the FT.

80. The Architect Programme

We ran two cohorts of the Architect Programme where I helped about a dozen people to turn their expertise and specialised skills into membership businesses that pay them monthly.

This is one of the hardest things I do yearly because go from having just an idea to launching an online membership business and even onboarding new customers.

81. Our children learned to iron their clothes

Chores are important for children. We ask ours, for example, to wash their dishes by hand and more recently, they’ve learned to iron.

82. Seeing teenagers watch our videos in class

We were sent a classroom picture of our how to start a business step-by-step video being watched by 16 and 17-year-olds in business class.

83. Delivering Personal Finance workshops for teachers

We delivered two back-to-back workshops to 250 Teachers and support staff across 8 primary schools in January. 

Thanks to Remi, a Head Teacher and big fan of The Humble Penny.

84. Our Instagram Exceeded 20,000 Followers

I really enjoyed curating relatable and real content for our instagram, telling a full story and not just one side of it.

This image about our garden transformation is a good example. Here is the caption:

✅️ Time at our home with a terrible garden: 10 years.

✅️ Time at our home with a garden we've always dreamed of having: 1 year.

This is the reality of how long it sometimes takes for things we dream about to actually happen IRL.

Nothing good happens overnight and other things often take priority.

If you're working towards something good in your finances that's taking a while to see results, keep at it 💪🏾

85. Mary’s love for Sourdough bread

Mary has fallen in love with the sourdough bread from Lidl. 

I never forget one time when she was so excited about going to Lidl and I asked why and she said she has a coupon for a free sourdough bread and she can’t wait to pick it up.

86. Consistency on Premier Gospel

Every Tuesday between 8 am and 8.30 am, we share a 5-minute segment to help people improve their finances.

I’ve loved the opportunity to do this and thank God for this open door to do this work for free and help people move forward with their finances.

87. Okiem played the piano at 5 am Club

In March, award-winning pianist and composer, Okiem, shared his story and played a beautiful piece at 5 am club after he joined FJA as a member.

This was one of those moments when you think, wow, what a special treat. Only those who joined the session experienced this rare moment.

He also shared life advice on how he’s got to where he is by always going above and beyond with every opportunity he gets.

88. “Working” documentary with Barack Obama.

What makes a good job good? Is money a motivator? What does it take to get fulfilled? 

For some, it's a paycheck. For others, it's a calling. This docuseries explores the meaning of work for modern Americans in a time of rapid change.

 

89. Mary’s reaction to her birthday card

I decided that her 40th was one to make a big deal about and wrote her 40 reasons I love her in a giant card I bought her.

She cried tears of joy reading it and also reading the beautiful words that our boys wrote her in her card.

90. Rocket Your Income Challenge

This is the most insanely valuable free 5-day challenge that we run every year.

For this year, we ran it twice and really enjoyed helping people to find ways of growing their incomes through a side hustle or their careers. 

The next one is coming up on 4th January, so feel free to learn more and join here

91. Received our first-ever book deal from Quercus 

I remember working all night and didn’t sleep at all to write a compelling book proposal.

Getting through this especially as something we’d never done before is yet a reminder that we can do a lot if we put our minds to it.

Getting this book deal opened doors to other publishers wanting to work with us as well.

We look forward to a future of writing more books and specifically, we’d like to write one for children or young adults.

92. Getting back into fitness

With the shed-to-home gym conversion, my fitness level has risen and I’m working out at least 3 days a week. 

My goal for 2024 is to reach 5 days a week.

93. Virgin Experience Days 

For our 40th, we noticed a shift in what our friends got us as presents.

Most of them got us vouchers for experiences such as a climbing experience at the O2, a 5-course meal at a Michelin-starred restaurant and a self-care day, etc.

Got to say, we received these well-considered gifts very well 😀

94. New love for gardening

I discovered this year that I actually love gardening. My thing is literally to do 5 minutes of gardening per day.

Everything from picking off weeds to watering the crops in Mary’s herb garden to simply trimming our evergreen trees.

There is a peace that I get away from screens to focus on something nature based.

95. Watched the ‘Earthing’ documentary 

I learned life life-changing importance of walking barefoot and connecting to the earth and how it has healing qualities.

Watch the full documentary here:

96. Being Braver

It takes bravery to choose the alternative life path and not do things because there are expectations for you to do them that way.

Here I’m talking about everything from the choice of career paths, working hours, lifestyle, work opportunities, what car we drive, etc.

I’m happy that our choice to be braver in our own way driven by what we really want out of our lives is paying off in our own way.

It’s not about comparing ourselves to anyone. It’s about doing our own thing and being happy with that.

97. Giving Back

This year, we made more of an attempt to give even more of our time, money, experience, networks, etc and backed people’s passion projects in different ways.

We still have some way to go and we’d like to do more voluntary work, however, in all we’ve done this year, what mattered most is that we did them quietly from the heart.

98. ‘The Last Tourist’ documentary.

I learned that if we're intentional about travel and think of the locals, travelling could become a way of giving back.

All-inclusive packages, for example, work against the locals. It's a hard pill to swallow.

This documentary highlighted important issues tied to orphanages, and animal cruelty (zoos and animal shows), which work adversely against locals.

Watch the full documentary here:

99. We celebrated 12 years of happy marriage

The last 12 years have been a beautiful adventure filled with love, fun, challenges and progress.

I am blessed and couldn’t have married a more beautiful and loving wife.

I thank God for our marriage and I know that we won’t be where we are today in our marriage and family life without making our faith the core foundation.

For me, this Michael J Fox quote says it all – “family is not an important thing, it is everything”. 

100. We stayed alive and well

You never know how well you’ve got it with your life until something changes e.g. you suffer poor health or lose a loved one.

I’ve learned this year that every normal and boring day is a great day.

I’m thankful for every day we’re alive and well having experienced a challenging year this year.

I look to 2024 with excitement and gladness with a focus on looking after my health, enjoying life some more, doing work I care about and making memories with our family.

I hope this post has inspired you to pause for a moment and take stock of the small things that you’re grateful for.

The future is bright if you believe it will be. Have a healthy, happy and abundant 2024 ahead.

Comment below and tell us a couple of things that made your year in 2023 🙂